tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8837229551123519902.post8434831561428479830..comments2023-09-21T08:16:34.587-05:00Comments on Paige's 365: A Good Coworker StoryPaigehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03363407716857644014noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8837229551123519902.post-23976661017170750312011-01-16T19:52:33.151-06:002011-01-16T19:52:33.151-06:00I love her. She is just what you need. File thos...I love her. She is just what you need. File those words away and think of them often.Rocciehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16240177887229400836noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8837229551123519902.post-15090026931151208052011-01-15T16:16:57.231-06:002011-01-15T16:16:57.231-06:00Re the professor/class - It isn't that you are...Re the professor/class - It isn't that you aren't strong enough. You are strong enough, but you're not ready for it. Very different things I think. It is not for lack of strength that we avoid some things, it's being sensible and listening to our heads/hearts as to what we are prepared to deal with during our grief. <br /><br />And your co-worker - I <3 her.Jennyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06987495797032184201noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8837229551123519902.post-35605694405431947992011-01-15T08:55:35.562-06:002011-01-15T08:55:35.562-06:00How sweet and wonderful. I would guess most peopl...How sweet and wonderful. I would guess most people don't know hat to do or say and so they just avoid you and the topic Greyson all together. It a reason, but its not an excuse. If that makes sense. You can understand why people do something without making it ok for them to do it. I wish more of your coworkers were able to be there for you like this one was.Lorahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12514992909586849215noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8837229551123519902.post-74985737353543187342011-01-14T20:21:37.736-06:002011-01-14T20:21:37.736-06:00Your coworker rocks! I hope that I could be such a...Your coworker rocks! I hope that I could be such a good friend in a horrible situation. I am sure others really do care about you and Greyson, but are unable to communicate, they just don't know what to say. Thinking of you.musicmakermommahttp://musicmakermomma.livejournal.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8837229551123519902.post-11360270590195955052011-01-14T20:14:03.107-06:002011-01-14T20:14:03.107-06:00Sounds like an amazing conversation. I haven'...Sounds like an amazing conversation. I haven't had a chance to comment recently, but I check in and read. Know that you're in my thoughts all the time.MommieVhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01802987098837731695noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8837229551123519902.post-24247976120803037112011-01-14T07:40:34.598-06:002011-01-14T07:40:34.598-06:00I'm sorry about the professor but am so glad t...I'm sorry about the professor but am so glad that BS talked to you. Sounds like an amazing person. Hugs to you.battynursehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02240029154165501340noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8837229551123519902.post-90746290761714113462011-01-14T07:19:36.209-06:002011-01-14T07:19:36.209-06:00Ugh, I'm so sorry that the professor called an...Ugh, I'm so sorry that the professor called and is making things even more difficult, you certainly don't need that. I'm upset that she made you cry.<br />I'm so happy that BS talked to you about your feelings and Greyson and was truly concerned about you. I'm glad that you have someone at school that will share with you and looks forward to you sharing with her.MookiePiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05541103497346363940noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8837229551123519902.post-35558029507472944822011-01-14T02:32:06.536-06:002011-01-14T02:32:06.536-06:00What a blessing your colleague is, if only more pe...What a blessing your colleague is, if only more people would acknowledge Greyson and talk to you about him.Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10892223595955789858noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8837229551123519902.post-75689974202404905142011-01-13T22:07:08.884-06:002011-01-13T22:07:08.884-06:00What a wonderful conversation...I'm so glad th...What a wonderful conversation...I'm so glad that BS asked you about Greyson and expressed empathy and interest. I would have liked for people's reactions to hearing your news to have manifested themselves differently (some contact, cards or tributes, hugs, and so forth). But it's good to hear that people realized what a devastating loss the death of Sweet Pea meant for you (and your family). <br /><br />I think that prof is pitifully equipped to support a grieving mother, and I wish I could tell her that. I would have burst into tears on the phone with her. You lost your baby and you really deserve to grieve in peace without being prodded or having to justify your absence from the class roster. I withdrew from at least two classes during undergrad and changed majors and I'm grateful that no one hounded me this way. Sending you a big hug Paige!Meredithnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8837229551123519902.post-84394972239240065752011-01-13T21:00:03.904-06:002011-01-13T21:00:03.904-06:00I too am glad that BS is at your school and that s...I too am glad that BS is at your school and that she reached out to you. I have really been wanting to do some serious butt-stomping at your school, but there may be some hope for some of the people after all. Maybe they just didn't know what to say and didn't want to say the wrong thing. But someone should tell them that ignoring such a loss (even if it's out of fear of causing more pain) is just not cool! <br /><br />Sweetie, any time you want to talk about Greyson or show his picture, I'd love to listen or see. I still pray and cry for you and Greyson. Love youNellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03273965620333616949noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8837229551123519902.post-31435766610642990692011-01-13T20:56:39.439-06:002011-01-13T20:56:39.439-06:00BS is an angel and a wonderful friend. I'm bl...BS is an angel and a wonderful friend. I'm blown away and so grateful that there are people like that in the world.inBetweenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17212548401525577878noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8837229551123519902.post-61252972794071340082011-01-13T20:54:36.876-06:002011-01-13T20:54:36.876-06:00I love that the coworker could do that for you. I ...I love that the coworker could do that for you. I wish people understood that whether the baby is 6wks gestation or 30 they are our babies real babies from the second we learn about them and them dying is us losing our first child, and all the hope and future be planned for them. We want them to say warm things about them and not to ignore it ever happened. My heart is with you. Hold onto the warmth that conversation gave you as long as you can *hugs*Mrs. Lydonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15521547747745543120noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8837229551123519902.post-18144354768730834072011-01-13T20:53:25.863-06:002011-01-13T20:53:25.863-06:00Paige- if you ever want to talk about Greyson with...Paige- if you ever want to talk about Greyson with me I'd love to hear. I don't find it macabre. I'm sorry if I haven't acknowledged your baby enough. I've been so worried about you that maybe I pushed those thoughts to the side. <br />Your conversation with BS gives me a little bit of hope for your coworkers. At least you have BS at school.Melissa Beckhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04589021522876981232noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8837229551123519902.post-68836271390210018252011-01-13T20:44:25.476-06:002011-01-13T20:44:25.476-06:00Your coworker has made me love her. That is how yo...Your coworker has made me love her. That is how you should have been treated all along. I'm so glad she spoke with you and in that way. I think those who cried over your loss simply lack the ability or the words to portray that sadness and instead are doing and saying nothing and nothing good which benefits no one. Don't know if that makes sense but this lady makes me feel better and I hope she made you feel good too.Gillehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12231416156357445330noreply@blogger.com